We're getting married

Elena & Thomas

Saturday, the eleventh of September, two thousand twenty-seven

09 · 11 · 2027

Hawthorn Row Vineyard · Willamette Valley, Oregon

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Among the vines at golden hour

The countdown

142 days

until we say "I do" beneath the Oregon sky

Harvest season A vineyard wedding String lights & long tables Dancing under the old oak Willamette Valley, Oregon Harvest season A vineyard wedding String lights & long tables Dancing under the old oak Willamette Valley, Oregon

Our story

From the rows to forever

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How we met

We met during a September crush, both of us volunteering for harvest at a small Dundee Hills vineyard. Elena was sorting fruit; Thomas was hauling bins and pretending he knew what he was doing. By the third day we were trading sandwiches at lunch, and by the last we were the only two still talking long after the press had stopped.

Two years, two cities

Then came two years of long distance — her in Portland, him in San Francisco — measured out in airport pickups, shared playlists, and Sunday phone calls that ran until the wine ran out. We learned that the valley always felt like the place we were both heading back to.

The proposal

Last October, Thomas asked Elena to walk the rows at sunset "to check on the vines." Between two trellises, with the hills going gold and a heron lifting off the river, he got down on one knee. She said yes before he'd quite finished the question.

A short history

  • 2022 A harvest in the Dundee Hills — and a first hello.
  • 2023 Two cities, countless miles, one steady answer.
  • 2025 A sunset between the rows — and a ring.
  • 2027 We marry where it all began.

By our side

The wedding party

The dearest people we know — the ones who'll stand with us beneath the vines.

Maid of Honor

Margaret Cole

Elena's sister and lifelong co-conspirator — keeper of every secret since the second grade.

Best Man

Daniel Reyes

Thomas's oldest friend from college, the one who introduced him to wine in the first place.

Bridesmaid

Priya Anand

Elena's roommate through every Portland apartment — and the calmest person at any gathering.

Groomsman

Owen Brennan

Thomas's younger brother, official toast-giver, and the only one allowed to tell the old stories.

Bridesmaid

Hannah Whitfield

A friend from that very first harvest — proof that the vineyard gives lasting things.

Groomsman

Marcus Lin

The friend who flew in for every long-distance birthday — now flying in for the best one.

The day

Saturday, September 11

An afternoon that drifts into a golden evening. Come early, stay late, and follow the lanterns.

Arrival & welcome

4:15 PM

Park, find a glass of estate rosé, and wander the garden path to your seat.

Hawthorn Row Vineyard · garden lawn

Ceremony among the vines

5:00 PM

We exchange our vows at the end of the oldest Pinot block, the valley spread out behind us.

The trellis arch · north vineyard rows

Cocktail hour

5:30 PM

Wine-country bites, valley vintages, and lawn games while we steal away for photographs.

The barrel terrace

Long-table dinner

6:30 PM

A family-style harvest dinner at one long table beneath the string lights — toasts encouraged.

The garden pavilion

Dancing under the old oak

8:30 PM

The band starts, the lanterns glow, and we dance on the lawn beneath the two-hundred-year-old oak until the last song. Late-night cider and warm blankets provided.

The oak lawn · until 11:00 PM

Venue & travel

Finding your way to us

Tucked into the hills outside Newberg — about forty minutes southwest of Portland.

The venue

Hawthorn Row Vineyard

A family-run estate on the western edge of the Willamette Valley, planted four decades ago by Elena's grandparents. Forty acres of Pinot Noir, a hand-built garden pavilion, and the old oak the whole family has gathered under for generations.

14820 Hawthorn Row Lane, Newberg, Oregon 97132

~40 minutes from Portland International Airport (PDX)

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Getting there

From Portland, take 99W south through Newberg, then follow Hawthorn Row Lane up the hill. The last half-mile is a gravel drive — take it slowly and watch for the lantern markers.

Parking

Free parking is available in the meadow lot, with attendants to guide you. Cars may be left overnight and collected the next morning — please do drive safely.

Out-of-town guests

We'd love for you to make a weekend of it. The nearest towns — Newberg, Dundee, and McMinnville — are full of tasting rooms, inns, and quiet country roads worth exploring.

Where to stay

Room blocks held
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The Allison Inn

Newberg · ~10 min

A serene wine-country retreat with a garden spa. The closest stay to the vineyard.

Mention the Walsh–Hayes wedding for our room block rate.

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The Dundee Lodge

Dundee · ~15 min

A cozy boutique lodge on Highway 99W, steps from the valley's best tasting rooms.

Mention the Walsh–Hayes wedding for our room block rate.

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Hotel Oregon

McMinnville · ~25 min

A charming historic hotel on McMinnville's walkable Third Street, with a rooftop bar.

Mention the Walsh–Hayes wedding for our room block rate.

Make a weekend of it

Things to do nearby

A few of our own favorites for the guests lingering in the valley a little longer.

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Tasting room

Cellar Lark

Our neighbors one ridge over — a small-production Pinot house with a sun-warmed patio and an open door for our guests.

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Outdoors

Chehalem Ridge Trail

An easy three-mile loop through oak savanna with long views over the valley — best in the cool of the morning.

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Scenic drive

The Worden Hill Loop

A slow, winding drive through the Dundee Hills past hillside vineyards and roadside fruit stands — windows down, no rush.

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Coffee & pastry

Maple & Rye Bakehouse

A beloved McMinnville bakery on Third Street — go early for the hazelnut morning buns and a proper cup of coffee.

A glimpse of the valley
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Will you join us?

RSVP

We can hardly wait to celebrate with you. Please let us know below — one card per guest.

Kindly reply by Saturday, July 31, 2027

Will you be attending?

Questions? Write to us any time at [email protected].

If you'd like to give

Registry

Your presence in the valley is the truest gift — truly. But for those who've asked, here are a few thoughtful places to look.

The Home Table

Linens, stoneware, and the small everyday things for the kitchen we're building together.

View registry

Honeymoon Fund

A contribution toward two slow weeks in Tuscany — vineyards of a different kind.

Contribute

Friends of the Valley

A gift in your name to a land trust protecting Willamette Valley farmland and oak habitat.

Donate

The Cellar Club

Help us lay down a few cases of Willamette Valley Pinot to open on each anniversary — a bottle of 2027 for our first, and on through the years.

Add a bottle

Good to know

Questions & answers

A few things guests often ask. Anything else — just write to us.

What should we wear?

Garden formal. Think soft suits, flowing dresses, and warm fabrics for an Oregon evening. The ceremony, dinner, and dancing all take place on grass and gravel, so we warmly recommend flat shoes or block heels — your feet will thank you under the oak.

Are children welcome?

Absolutely — little ones are welcome and we'd love to see them. The vineyard is a wonderful place for children to roam, with lawn games and plenty of space. Just note the day is mostly outdoors, so dress them for the grass and a cool evening.

Will the wedding be indoors or outdoors?

The day is almost entirely outdoors — the ceremony among the vines, dinner under the garden pavilion, and dancing on the oak lawn. September evenings in the valley can turn cool after sunset, so bring a light layer. We'll have blankets and heaters on hand, and a covered pavilion should the weather surprise us.

Where should we stay?

The nearest towns are Newberg, Dundee, and McMinnville, all a short drive from the vineyard. We've held room blocks at The Allison Inn in Newberg, The Dundee Lodge, and Hotel Oregon in McMinnville — see the Travel section above for details and our block rate.

How should we get to and from the venue?

The vineyard sits up a quiet country road, so carpooling is encouraged — it's kinder to the gravel drive and far more fun. If you'd like a ride or have a seat to offer, let us know in your RSVP note and we'll happily help connect guests staying nearby.

What time should we arrive?

Please plan to arrive by 4:30 PM so there's time to park, find a glass of estate rosé, and walk the garden path to your seat. The ceremony begins promptly at 5:00 PM among the vines.

With love & gratitude

We found each other among the vines — and we'd love nothing more than to begin here, with you.

Can't wait to celebrate with you.

09 · 11 · 2027 — WILLAMETTE VALLEY

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